The official blog of Rabbi Barry Lutz from Temple Ahavat Shalom in Northridge, California.

Friday, February 1, 2008

Imagine Shabbat

At our recent Union of Reform Judaism biennial, URJ president Rabbi Eric Yoffie challenged the Reform movement to take seriously Shabbat as a 24 hour opportunity for rest, reflection and renewal. He suggested that we must go beyond Friday night, to make Shabbat the full day experience that it was meant to be. Below, is a portion of his remarks. You can find the entirety of his statement @ http://urj.org/Articles/index.cfm?id=17448 Read on and then let me know what you think!

In our 24/7 culture, the boundary between work time and leisure time has been swept away, and the results are devastating. Do we really want to live in a world where we make love in half the time and cook every meal in the microwave? When work expands to fill all our evenings and weekends, everything suffers, including our health. But families take the worst hit. The average parent spends twice as long dealing with email as playing with his children.

For our stressed-out, sleep-deprived families, the Torah’s mandate to rest looks relevant and sensible. Our tradition does not instruct us to stop working altogether on Shabbat; after all, it takes a certain amount of effort to study, pray and go to synagogue. But we are asked to abstain from the work that we do to earn a living, and instead to reflect, to enjoy and to take a stroll through the neighborhood. We are asked to put aside those Blackberries and stop gathering information, just as the ancient Israelites stopped gathering wood. We are asked to stop running around long enough to see what God is doing.

And this most of all: In synagogue and at home, we are asked to give our kids, our spouse and our friends the undivided attention that they did not get from us the rest of the week. On Shabbat we speak to our children of their hopes and dreams. We show them that we value them for who they are and not for the grades they get or the prizes they win. During the week we pursue our goals; on Shabbat we learn simply to be.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

With my eyes closed, I can imagine Shabbat at TAS as a place where the adults just 'hangout' together, relaxing, discussing, laughing. The kids are doing their own 'hangout' checking in with us from time to time, in person, not by texting. No schedule - nowhere to go - other than where conversation takes us. We leave Saturday evening rested and invigorated for a new week; not frazzled. Sounds like I better keep going to summer camp!

Anonymous said...

I don't know how you have time to write this amazing account of your daily journey. Thanks for keeping in touch. Ira and I are planning to go to Israel in September so this is getting me excited. Maybe we'll have to join you in 2010!
Susan Halpern