The official blog of Rabbi Barry Lutz from Temple Ahavat Shalom in Northridge, California.

Friday, July 2, 2010

Gay Pride Parade with Avodah Campers




At Camp Newman the entering 11th graders are in a program called Avodah. They stay at camp the whole summer and their program is a mix of regular camp programming and service to the camp and the community. In addition to swimming and climbing and theme nights, the Avodah campers are building the camp kibbutz, preppig the dining hall before each meal, and sorting all the mail. One of their big projects for the summer is raising money for and participating in the AIDS Walk in San Francisco.

Last week I went with the Avodah campers to the San Francisco Gay Pride Parade. The campers prepared for the parade by talking about the things that make them proud to be themselves. Camp is a place where teenagers feel free to express themselves without fear of judgment, and I was moved by how much of themselves the campers were willing to share with each other. At the Gay Pride Parade our group carried banners that said “Proud To Be Me” and a rainbow chuppah. Whenever we stopped along the parade route, campers posing as same-sex couples exchanged rings under the chuppah and broke a plastic cup to shouts of “mazel tov!” The crowd greeted us with cheering, and the campers kept up their energy and enthusiasm despite the uncharacteristic heat in San Francisco.

It was an amazing day and I was proud to be walking with the Avodah campers. While waiting for our turn to walk in the parade I met several Christian clergy members, both gay and straight, who were also walking in support of gay pride. We talked about the need for people of faith to support gay rights and not to allow a narrow vision of God to be used to justify hatred. The Torah teaches us that each one of us is created b’tzelem elohim, in God’s image, and that every one of us has a spark of the divine within us; we are at our best when we remember that in our dealings with others.

Monday, June 28, 2010

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I've created our own separate blog spot for our Israel 2010 trip. You can follow us here, add your own comments and enjoy ... tasisrael2010.blogspot.com

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Shalom from Camp Newman

Shalom from Camp Newman.

When campers arrive at Camp Newman they are greeted with songs and cheering.

As soon as they come through the gates they know that they are welcome here. The entire staff at camp greet each car and bus and, throughout the afternoon, show as much excitement for the last campers to arrive as they did for the first ones. Coming to camp, whether you are a first time or returning camper, is like greeting an old friend—even before you do anything, everyone is happy just to see you. Campers are applauded like rock stars and their faces light up when they realize all the excitement is for them.

Two of our TAS students— Evan and Jake—are in the Avodah track this summer at Newman, and they worked tirelessly on opening day: cheering, directing parents where to go, unloading luggage, and singing “Heivenu Shalom” all afternoon. TAS alumnus Robert accompanied campers on their bus ride from the airport, singing songs and talking about all the fun to be had this summer. Emily kept campers entertained and happy, introducing them to new friends while they waited for everyone to arrive.

It is a wonderful feeling to arrive somewhere and know it is exactly where you are supposed to be—to be welcomed just for being you. Jewish tradition values hospitality and welcoming guests. Abraham welcomes strangers to his tent, washes their feet, and provides a meal. In midrash, the rabbis elaborated on Abraham’s hospitality, explaining that Abraham rushed to provide for his guests and that he prepared the meal himself. Our tradition recognizes this important part of relationships—how it feels to be welcomed, and how it feels to welcome others. For Abraham, that moment of welcome becomes a holy moment, and he learns that he will have a child. At Camp Newman, that moment of welcome becomes a holy moment, when the pure joy of being in this place together is shared.

Friday, June 18, 2010

Dvar Torah for Hukat by Rabbi Shawna

24 years ago I read from Hukat at my Bat Mitzvah; I revisited it this week while writing the Dvar Torah for the L.A. Board of Rabbis.

You can read it here.

Shabbat Shalom.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Skirball Cultural Center - Exhibition | Making Faces: Playful Portraits of People You Know by Hanoch Piven


Tuesday Torah Study is taking a field trip to the Skirball.

I saw this exhibit a few weeks ago at the Skirball:

Skirball Cultural Center - Exhibition | Making Faces: Playful Portraits of People You Know by Hanoch Piven

If you want to see it in person, along with Jews on Vinyl, join the TAS Tuesday Torah Study group this Tuesday, June 15.
Meet in the TAS parking lot at 10:50 a.m. to carpool, enjoy a lunch out at Zoe's Cafe and then tour the museum, return to TAS around 2 p.m.


Friday, May 28, 2010

Is Confirmation the Answer?

I just read an article in Time about college students being more likely to care about global issues than to empathize with other human beings.

While reading it I thought about this year's Confirmation class, the soon-to-be college students that I know, and how they do not fit the description in Time magazine. This year's confirmands were caring and connected, and went out of their way to try to understand each other.

It made me wonder if Judaism and Confirmation can be an antidote to the lack of empathy that characterizes college students today. Judaism commands us to have empathy; we are obligated to remember how our ancestors were treated in Egypt, and that should shape how we treat other people. If the real problem is lack of personal connection in the age of texting and video games, as the article suggests, then a strong connection to the Jewish community can create the social bonds that help us understand others.

Read the article in Time: College Students Short on Empathy

Then check out the Confirmation 2010 Speeches

[Posted by Rabbi Shawna Brynjegard-Bialik]

Monday, May 17, 2010

Jewish American Heritage Month

Did you know that May is Jewish American Heritage Month? Check out the official website for more information and biographies of influential Jewish Americans.

Friday, March 5, 2010

I've got a feeling- Shabbat version

Temple Ahavat Shalom did this last week at Purim for Havdalah, check out this Shabbat version of the Black Eyed Peas song "Iv'e got a feeling".

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Purim at Temple Ahavat Shalom -
with MacGruber?


Join us for Purim (and Havdalah!) this Saturday, February 27, from 6:30 - 8:00 p.m. MacGruber may not be there... but we promise some very special guests!

Stay for a 21 and over Purim Celebration at 8:15 p.m.; $12 per person at the door (designated drivers are free). Free childcare available!

Win free tickets to the TAS Purim Carnival -- follow us on Twitter and retweet our message to be entered into a random drawing! A new winner every day, through Friday!

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Guest Blogger, Rabbi Brynjegard-Bialik:
Israeli Army saving lives in Haiti

I have been watching the videos of the Israeli Army field hospital in Haiti; I am so impressed with what the Israeli Defense Force has been able to do so quickly and so well.

CNN has been covering the Israeli response:



This report shows how advanced the IDF field hospital is:



I have also been following the IDF on Twitter; it is incredible what they are able to do, and the lives they are able to save, in the aftermath of the earthquake. There are also some amazing videos direct from the IDF on You Tube.

Posted by:
Rabbi Shawna Brynjegard-Bialik

Thursday, January 7, 2010

Guest Blogger, Rabbi Brynjegard-Bialik:
Does the ECEC predict future TAS involvement?

The videos of the "So You Think You Can Shpiel?" talent show are up on the TAS YouTube channel; you can find links to all of the contestants here.

The acts were all great and you can enjoy them again or watch them for the first time and vote for your favorites. When you look at the list of acts you might notice the number of kids performing in the show. During the live performance Debi Chesler, talent show host and ECEC director, pointed out how many of those kids are ECEC alumni. It became a running joke: "yet another talented kid who went to the TAS ECEC; they must have learned it at the ECEC."

While I can not say for sure what the cause and effects are between ECEC graduates and temple involvement, there are several possible conclusions about involvement in Jewish life:

1. Families that send their children to the TAS ECEC are more likely to stay involved with TAS as their children grow up.

2. Children who grow up at TAS get involved in temple activities.

3. Children who grow up at TAS are comfortable enough in temple and in our community to get up on stage and perform for our community.



What do you think?

Posted by: Rabbi Shawna Brynjegard-Bialik